Reclaim Your Power After Toxic Love—And Build Unshakable Self-Worth That No One Can Touch.
say no more, I want in!
Release, Heal, & Reclaim Your self-worth After Toxic Relationships
self-worth
Toxic Relationships
👉 You left (or tried to)—but they’re still in your head, and you hate that part of you still misses them.
👉 You don’t know how to let go—and you’re starting to wonder if you ever will.
👉 You crave the intensity sometimes—but you also know it was costing you your peace.
a heavy heart
👉 You blame yourself for what happened—telling yourself that if you were “better,” they wouldn’t have treated you that way.
👉 You’re afraid this is all you’ll ever get—that you’ll never find a relationship that actually feels good.
👉 You feel like maybe you just aren’t “the kind of person” who gets to have a healthy, secure love.
👉 You second-guess yourself all the time: “Was it really that bad?”
👉 You’ve left and gone back so many times, you’ve lost track—and each time, you hoped it would finally be different.
👉 You try to move on—but something always pulls you back in.
blaming yourself
GOING BACK & FORTH
Tell Me If This
Sounds Like You
To honoring your embodying your authenticity & as a woman, so you can transform the most important relationship
of all...
The Toxic Relationship DETOX is a deep journey
Because when you know your worth, every relationship gets to rise to meet you.
Heart
the one with yourself.
Power
Holly is kind, supportive and very knowledgeable. She's precise, gentle, supportive, wise, thoughtful and empowering. Bet on yourself. Invest in yourself. Trust your intuition and in your ability to love yourself. Don't hesitate!!!
"I went from being clinically depressed for decades to having virtually no major depressive episodes. My emotions were like a train wreck and now I feel like I'm in control of my life for the first time."
Paulina s.
Noemi C.
Before, I wasn’t in a good mental place. Didn’t know how to address my feelings or how to name them. Feelings where too much that I got lost in them and couldn’t understand myself. It’s been a life change since then and now I know that my feeling are there to warn me and look within myself and not to be afraid. Every emotion I feel, I validate them and process them without judging them.
"It’s been a life change since working with Holly. I trust myself more because of her beautiful work. Thank you for making this a safe space to everyone who needs it."
So often I have felt so alone in my healing journey or unable to verbalize what I truly feel. However, now I feel understood and amongst good company.
"Finding Holly’s work feels like some kind of divine intervention."
karen
juicy self-worth
We’re raising your standards—starting with how you treat yourself. You’ll learn to prioritize your needs and hold your boundaries—not out of fear, but from self-respect. Self-worth won’t be something you “work on”—it’ll be who you are.
It all starts with you.
We’ll dive deep into your heart—so you feel connected, grounded and whole within yourself. From that place, your relationships naturally shift—because you show up as the woman who knows her worth.
deeper connections
Let’s work through the emotions that kept you stuck—so you can finally feel clear, grounded and in charge of your heart again. You’ll see your past through eyes of wisdom—and create a future built on self-trust and peace.
a clear heart
what if you could
heal from the past
...and finally feel secure, supported and at home in yourself? So that every relationship you choose from here on adds to your life—because you refuse to settle for less.
Let’s go there, babe—where love feels good because you never abandon yourself to get it.
it's not your fault that you're not there yet
There are 3 powerful forces working against you…
You Were Told That
Love = Your Worth
Society made you believe that love is a commodity—and without it, you have no value.
So you stayed, fought and tolerated less than you deserved—because being chosen felt like proof you mattered. But your worth isn't up for negotiation.
You Were Taught to Abandon Yourself for Love
You learned that being a “good woman” means putting others first. So you bent over backwards trying to be chosen—while losing yourself in the process. Now you’re exhausted, resentful and running on empty.
Surface-Level Relationship Advice
You’ve been bombarded with quick tips like “just communicate better” or “manifest your soulmate”—but none of it heals the root wound. It’s a band-aid when what you really need is your power back.
"I learned things I had not learned in years of therapy from Holly. She gets me!
Aisha
I'm really satisfied with Holly's work + coaching. A caring, attentive and person being able to dive into others people circumstances and emotions in a very professional way.
noemi
I bought this on sale and was questioning if I should spend so much on it. Going back and forth until I said f&* it and bought it. After going through the first workbook I now know why I did that. This workbook is priceless. It's so perfect for my adhd brain. Simple, concise, beautiful, powerful and FREAKING CHANGED MY LIFE THE FIRST HOUR. I will be buying everything you sell girl! Thanks for teaching me to love myself more!
For years, I settled.
I gave my heart to men who didn’t deserve it—takers, emotionally unavailable guys, partners who made me feel small. I bent over backwards, trying to be “enough,” trying to earn their love. But every time, I ended up feeling like I had to shrink myself just to be wanted.
What I didn’t realize back then was that this pattern didn’t start with those men—it started with my dad.
I grew up emotionally enmeshed with him. From the moment I was born, I was his surrogate spouse—his emotional caretaker. I learned that love meant giving everything and getting nothing back. That became the blueprint. So when I started dating, I was drawn to men who made me feel the same way—like I had to earn their love.
Because that’s what felt like love to me. Until I hit my breaking point.
After one too many gut-wrenchingly bad first dates, I realized I was doing it again—settling.
Betraying myself in the name of love.
I decided I was done.
Done choosing men who drained me.
Done abandoning myself just to feel wanted.
Holly Soulié
Your Guide, Emotional health expert &
life coach for women
I made a vow to myself: I would make ME happy.
And I would never get into another relationship unless it genuinely made my life better.
That’s when everything changed.
I didn’t just attract healthier relationships—I became the kind of woman who would never settle again.
Now, I’ve guided thousands of women around the world through this same journey—helping them rebuild their self-worth, reclaim their power, and finally feel whole.
- Psychologists and therapists buy my resources to use in their own practices.
- Women from every corner of the world have used my tools to break free from emotional patterns and create relationships that actually feel good.
- I’m known for helping sensitive, self-aware women become emotionally confident—so they never betray themselves again.
And this program—Toxic Relationship DETOX—is the exact work I did to break free from that pattern.
It’s the work that brought me back to myself.
And I’m here to walk you through it—every step of the way.
I rebuilt my self-worth from the ground up.
I stopped chasing love and started choosing me.
I became emotionally confident. I built radical self-trust.
You can work through your emotions instead of self-sabotaging
Your ex pops into your head and it doesn't send you spiraling
You know what you deserve and stay absolutely true to that
You start attracting relationships that actually nourish you
You're turned off by inconsistent, undependable guys
You know exactly how to meet your own needs
Your heart is free from all that old baggage
Just picture what's going to be possible for you when...
Fast Forward 4 Weeks...
You work through your emotions instead of self-sabotaging
Your ex pops into your head and it doesn’t throw you off course
You know what you deserve—and never waver on that
You attract relationships that actually nourish you
You’re turned off by inconsistent, unreliable guys
You know exactly how to meet your own needs
Your heart finally feels free from all that old baggage
Just picture what's going to be possible for you when...
Fast Forward 4 Weeks...
4x pre-recorded video trainings (see below for full breakdown)
Weekly self-reflection homework to help you integrate and embody the work
the details
how we get there
this 4-week program includes...
The Journey
Our 4-Weeks Together
- Techniques to grieve
- How to stop emotional spirals
- Intention setting for your future
- Turning pain into clarity about what you truly want
week 1:
RELEASE
WE'LL COVER
- Spotting the patterns keeping you stuck
- Why self-nurturing shifts everything
- Becoming enough for yourself
- Self-reflection tools to reconnect with you
week 2:
REVEAL
WE'LL COVER
- Uncovering how you mirror your parents' relationship
- Understanding why you’ve settled for less
- Creating new, empowering beliefs about love + worth
week 3:
REWIRE
WE'LL COVER
- Using emotions to reveal your true #relationshipgoals
- Preparing to welcome healthy, aligned love
- Building self-nurturing habits that last for life
week 4:
REDEFINE
WE'LL COVER
The Journey
- Techniques to grieve
- Avoiding emotional spirals
- Intention setting
- Using the pain to inform you of your true desires
week 1:
WE'LL COVER
RELEASE
Our 4-Weeks Together
- Identifying the patterns that keep you stuck
- Why self-nurturing is everything
- Being enough for yourself
- Self-reflection techniques
WE'LL COVER
REVEAL
week 2:
- Identifying unconscious ways you mirror your parents
- Discovering why you don't think you deserve better
- Creating new, helpful beliefs
week 3:
REWIRE
- Using your emotions to show you your true #relationshipgoals
- Prep work to meet your soulmate
- Self-nurturing for the long haul
week 4:
WE'LL COVER
WE'LL COVER
REDEFINE
Holly is kind, supportive and very knowledgeable. She's precise, gentle, supportive, wise, thoughtful and empowering. Bet on yourself. Invest in yourself. Trust your intuition and in your ability to love yourself. Don't hesitate!!!
"I went from being clinically depressed for decades to having virtually no major depressive episodes. My emotions were like a train wreck and now I feel like I'm in control of my life for the first time."
Paulina s.
Noemi C.
Before, I wasn’t in a good mental place. Didn’t know how to address my feelings or how to name them. Feelings where too much that I got lost in them and couldn’t understand myself. It’s been a life change since then and now I know that my feeling are there to warn me and look within myself and not to be afraid. Every emotion I feel, I validate them and process them without judging them.
"It’s been a life change since working with Holly. I trust myself more because of her beautiful work. Thank you for making this a safe space to everyone who needs it."
So often I have felt so alone in my healing journey or unable to verbalize what I truly feel. However, now I feel understood and amongst good company.
"Finding Holly’s work feels like some kind of divine intervention."
karen
Currently, all program materials are hosted in the private Facebook group. If you don't have a Facebook account or prefer not to use it, we encourage you to create a temporary account to access the course, then immediately delete it. Please contact Holly if you need alternative arrangements, hello@hollysoulie.com
Do I have to have a Facebook account to access the program?
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The program includes four group calls via Zoom, weekly self-reflection homework, and a private group for connection with other women.
What are the resources provided in the program?
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You will receive instant access to all of the trainings and learning resources found within the program, and you will have lifetime access to them.
When will I get access to the program?
1
FAQs
your questions answered
The full cost of the program, including 4 hours of video trainings, 4 weeks of accompanying homework and access to the private group is $849.
How much does the program cost?
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Holly, a certified Emotional Intelligence Coach, owns the Emotional Health Shop on Etsy. She creates trusted resources for licensed mental health professionals and has over 1,000 5-star reviews. Having overcome toxic, codependent relationships herself, she has helped countless women globally do the same.